Well once again, as most of you have heard so many times, I am an unintentional liar! I mentioned once before in a post (that I ended up deleting off of here) that Brian and I were getting a divorce. Despite both of our actions to keep this marriage together we have decided that a divorce will be the best thing for us. I can't explain the feelings I am having about this. Lets clarify things once again.... I dont want anyone to think one or the other of us are the bad person or the culprit behind all of this. Our problems are our own, and we are both equally at fault. Ever since the initial seperation WE have been in contact every single day and have since regained our friendship. This friendship is priceless to both of us and I consider Brian my BEST friend! I dont know why it is that some relationships dont work out, BUT I do know that Brian will always be my dearest friend! Infact that friendship is much better than the marriage. Again I cant explain why we are such amazing friends yet we cant make a marriage work. I guess it is one of those crazy mysteries of life.:) We will both be fine and are both excited to start our new lives. If any of you hear different reasons for this divorce or if the news reaches your ear in as some nasty, twisted little lie, please know that what I have explained above is the true reason for this.
We dont care what others think, as this is OUR life, and we deserve to be happy in whatever manner we choose! I am talking WHATEVER manner we choose, and if people are not happy with the choices we make now as individuals they can go chew on a log!! Personally, I am going to miss my in-laws SO SO SO much and hope that they will always keep a place for me in thier hearts, I will ALWAYS have one for them:) I know that Brian feels the exact same way about my parents!:)
I will be changing this blog to my personal blog.
Hope all is going well for the rest of you, and wishing you all the happiest new year! :)
16 years ago
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